A few days ago on my Facebook wall, I explained one of the hierarchies that exist in the world of transracial international adoption as to who can speak or deal with this phenomenon.
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What a pleasure it is to feel part of a group, coherent and united. To build connections, friendships and even family ties with other women. There is magic when women unite, when they pool their creative power.
It is also a natural phenomenon: to get closer to those who resemble us and to be stronger together.
Of course, there are prerequisites in order to benefit from this context : to Know who we are, to recognize the people who look like us and to have common goals.
This dream is a real challenge to face.
Who are you ?
Do you know who you are as a person?
How conscious you are of your own self?
Many women, whether they look strong or not, are very vulnerable internally. They look for themselves in the eyes of a man, or feel at risk in the company of other women.
Not knowing who you are or not being aware of your potential will often put you in trouble. As if your flesh was raw and exposed and the slightest contact could hurt you horribly.
A woman, is by nature a creator. She gives birth in her flesh, but also in her spirit.
Over the past centuries she has forgotten the magnitude of her power, and she has begun to suffer, waiting and hoping for a better future.
But a woman aware of her essence is a goddess.
She can be a creative force or a destructive one, but she will take action.
A circle of conscious women is pure magic.
Getting closer to other women is also to be aware of the magic that is present in them. It is also about tolerating their variable state of consciousness and their value of life.
To discovery someone else, one must be already aware of one’s own existence and accept the other.
But a woman aware of her essence is a goddess.
She can be a creative force or a destructive one, but she will take action.
Who are the ones that look like you ?
Tricky Question because it also implies that you decide the criteria of similarity.
Which group do you want to belong to?
What do you think is important to highlight in your case?
A colour, an origin, a story, a situation?
Often, people get into relationships with the kiff of the moment. Acting consciously gives the possibility to build perennial commitments. You can’t sort out what you like or dislike about someone, but you can choose what seems a priority, what you are looking for first.
Choosing areas of convergence it is also choosing to erase the secondary issues.
What about the goals?
What could be the purpose ?
The objectives can be assessed at two different levels: personal benefits or the advancement of a cause.
Of course, you can feel in tune with other women because you share the same difficulties and you are determined to help each other.
They do you good and allow you to advance in your objectives or improve your daily life. Or because you are fighting for a cause that will be indirectly in your favour. A cause that is important to you and you want to contribute to.
Sometimes the two interests come together and other occasions not at all. Therefore, it’s very important to know what matters most to you.
Sisterhood, solidarity between women, is an ideal. It’s up to you to make it a reality in your life. The way forward would be, being aware of yourself, of others as well as your real life aspirations.
Sisterhood, solidarity between women, is an ideal. It’s up to you to make it a reality in your life. The way forward would be, being aware of yourself, of others as well as your real life aspirations.
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